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Ultimate Dildo Buying Guide For Men

A selection of dildos

A dildo can be an intimidating purchase for any male who is purchasing one for the first time. The different types, sizes and materials can be overwhelming, and so this article will help you to make an informed decision when purchasing a dildo for your female significant other (or for yourself).

Buying a dildo for your girl should not be an overwhelming or nerve-wracking experience, but rather an enjoyable and exciting one. A dildo is essentially any sex toy designed for insertion that does not vibrate, and these can come in many sizes, shapes, colours and materials.

Equipped with the right knowledge and understanding, a carefully selected purchase of a dildo for the special lady in your life will not only benefit her pleasure as well as yours, but it will benefit your relationship and sexual intimacy. A dildo should not be seen as something that will replace you as a man, but rather something that will enhance the sexual experience for you both.

Types of Dildos

There are many different types of dildos on the market, so it is important to establish exactly what your needs or desires are to make an informed decision. Some might be too large and intimidating, and some might be too realistic looking for your tastes. Others still are designed to stimulate different parts of the female (and male) anatomy.

Anal Dildos

Image – a selection of anal dildos

As the name suggests, anal dildos are available in numerous forms, designed as unisex items or as male-specific toys.

Anal dildos are available in the form of anal plugs (butt plugs), probes and prostate massagers.

Prostate massagers are designed specifically to stimulate the male prostate, affectionately referred to as the “P-spot” or the male G-spot. This can greatly enhance the male orgasm.

With females, an anal dildo can significantly enhance the sexual experience through simultaneous anal, clitoral, and vaginal stimulation, often resulting in mind-blowing orgasms for her. 

Brutal Dildos

Brutal dildos are simply oversized dildos that will outmatch even the most gifted of men. These are most often not an accurate representation of reality, possessing exceptional length and girth. 

This would not be advisable for a first-time dildo user. This is not a sex toy for beginners, your girl will probably need to work up to this one. And if you are concerned with being outsized, then this dildo is not gonna help at all.

Double Dongs

Double dongs are essentially double-sided dildos. This means that both partners are able to be penetrated by the same dildo simultaneously. This can allow for an entirely different experience for both partners, if you are feeling adventurous, that is.

Double dongs can be used both anally and vaginally, allowing for a multitude of different options for play.

G-Spot Dildos

G-spot dildos are designed specifically to stimulate the female G-spot, allowing women to experience powerful vaginal orgasms.

While it may be difficult for some men to reach the G-spot using their own tools, a G-spot dildo will ensure that this particularly erogenous zone is within reach, every time.

Glass Dildos

These might seem like a strange option to some, but once you know how to use glass dildos they allow for some entirely new and exciting experiences.

Due to its ability to accept temperature changes, glass dildos can be used hot or cold, adding an entirely new dimension to the sexual experience.

Large Dildos

While not extremely oversized like the brutal dildos, large dildos are more realistic in terms of size. Don’t be fooled, because these still fall on the “extremely gifted” end of the size spectrum. Large dildos usually start at around 7 inches long, so don’t allow these big boys to make you feel insecure. After all, it’s how you use it that counts!

Realistic Dildos

These are the closest you can get to the “real thing”, so this might be a good option for your girl to enjoy while you’re not around.

Realistic dildos often incorporate realistic testicles, veins and head. The size is accurate and the materials are such that they feel like a real penis.

Strap-On Dildos

Strap-on dildos can add a completely new dimension to your bedroom experience. If you’re feeling brave – and why shouldn’t you – you can let your girl strap on her own fake dong and give you a taste of your own medicine. You might enjoy it more than you thought!

Luxury Dildos

Some sex toy companies have created bespoke dildos which are made of the most luxurious materials such as gold, pearls, or other precious jewels. These serve the same purpose as ordinary dildos; however they are used most often as a statement piece. 

The “Lelo Earl” for example, costs over $2 200, and is a simple butt plug made of gold.

Dildo Materials

The materials in which dildos are made plays a major factor in one’s enjoyment of them, as well as to their longevity and safety.

Certain materials are porous, with the result that they are extremely difficult to clean properly, and they are able to harbour harmful bacteria. Other materials are simply toxic and should be avoided at all costs. 

One should avoid dildos made from elastomer (TPR/TPE) as well as Fanta Flesh, jelly, PVC and latex.

Silicone is one of the most popular choices for sex toys due to its inherent safety, high quality, soft texture, and ability to be used in different temperature applications.

Glass is easy to clean and is therefore another good and safe material for dildos, while wood and metal present other safe, reliable options.

Other Sex Toys She Might Like

Dildos are just one type of sex toy that exist for women. There are numerous toys on the market that offer a plethora of different experiences that will enhance her sexual experience, as well as yours.

Some options to consider are bullet vibrators, wand massagers, fingertip vibrators, rabbit vibrators, clitoral suction toys and clitoral vibrators.

Relationship Benefits of Buying a Dildo for Your Female Partner

A dildo (or any sex toy) is designed to enhance sexual experience in both solo and partner-driven experiences. The use of these toys allows the users to explore their sexual desires together and create entirely different experiences for themselves.

Using a dildo during solo play can also allow a woman to work out exactly what she enjoys, which she can, in turn, show her man how to achieve.

Shopping time

Now that you are equipped with sufficient knowledge about dildos, you will be able to purchase the perfect sex toy for your partner. This will allow you to discover an entire world of potential pleasure that you can explore with your partner and allow her to explore on her own.

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